Getting to grips with this aspect of pronunciation is important if you want to understand modern films, music, internet chat and colloquial English used by native speakers. Therefore, it is worth examining where certain informal terms may differ from their formal equivalents.
Where written English tends to be governed by strict rules and spelling norms, greater freedom is afforded to the spoken language. This leads to differences in the English we speak and write, especially in informal vs. formal situations. Conservatives may argue that relaxed pronunciation represents a degradation of the language, a lack of education or simple laziness. However, these forms exist alongside their standard equivalents and do not replace them in writing and formal contexts. Therefore, if confined to informal situations, these non-standard forms are not necessarily bad.
If you have ever listened to a song on MTV or watched a Hollywood film, you will no doubt be familiar with common forms of relaxed pronunciation like: wanna, gonna, kinda, coulda, etc. Words of this type are seldom written down so do not have standard spellings. Note that contractions (can’t, won’t, etc.) are regarded as standard forms in English and do not fall into this category, although they are also used in informal contexts.
English is not the only language that uses these colloquial forms. Examples of relaxed pronunciation in Russian include: здрасти (здравствуйте), ничо (ничего), ваще (вообще), сёдня (сегодня), тыща (тысяч), как-нить (как-нибудь), када (когда), прям (прямо), щас/ща (сейчас), чё/чо (что).
Below is a list of relaxed forms in English:
Coulda, woulda, shoulda, musta, oughta, wanna, gonna, tryna (trying to)
Didja (did you), d’ya (do you), doncha (don’t you), gotcha (got you), getcha (get you), wouldja (would you)
Climbin’, goin’, doin’, fightin’, clubbin’, talkin’ (-g is not pronounced)
A’ready, a’right, ‘bout
Cumeer (come here), dunno (don’t know), gimme (give me), lemme (let me), watcha (what are/have you)
Ahlee (all he), izee (is he), tellim (tell him), shower (show her), askem (ask them), innit (isn’t it), wassup (what’s up)
S’pose (suppose), probly (probably)
Examples of real English usage:
“Wadaya talkin’ ‘bout?”
(What are you talking about?)
“Wassup, man! Howzit going?”
(What’s up man! How’s it going?)
“Am tryna fix y’car – gimme a hand, wouldja?”
(I’m trying to fix your car – give me a hand, would you?)
“John’s gonna go clubbin’ withem later. Izee?”
(John is going clubbing with them later. Is he?)
“Am s’posed to meetim there but letim know I gotta stay home.”
(I’m supposed to meet him there but let him know I’ve got to stay home.)